One day after initiating this blogspot, called
Embrace Change, I find myself sitting in the Raja Saba Hall where we gather every morning for Puja and Satsang and Swamiji starts speaking on the subject of "change". I thought, "hey thats my blog" so I thought I would share with you his wisdom on change? I know you are not familiar with some terms so let me explain simply so this article will make sense.
Completion, being in a state of completion is having nothing sitting in your inner space that is impacting the present moment. (No thoughts, no worries, no meetings you have second thoughts about, no one you need to apologize to, nothing that you have left undone and it is occupying your inner space to the point where your present moment is impacted or your mind is occupied on other things that have absorbed your attention to fix or change or let go from.) Got it? No HOLES in the WHOLE.
Incompletion: Having any psychological hangovers or situations, emotional turbulence, people, concerns, worries that are impacting your inner space in this present moment. Definitely there are HOLES IN THE WHOLE!
"Life is eternal excitement. Life is eternally changing and change brings excitement.This is the most stable lifestyle you can have. Having the clarity and cognition that life is change is the greatest stability you can bring to your life." So when one choses to embrace change from a place of completion, no negative mental patterns impacting decisions, this is stability.
Change is a law of life.
Out of incompletion, fear, insecurity or powerlessness, we may think we want to embrace change in our life because we need to do 'something' to change an external situation. However, when we try and bring stability hoping to minimize the impact of change by stopping or creating a buffer not to let that change happen, then stability brings the curse of boredom. Stability then is a space where change is not possible. The effects of change on your inner space makes you afraid of change. This is because we are afraid of the incompletions we have to go through during every change. This I experienced in the beginning of my stay here in India. I found myself feeling fearful about my future second guessing whether or not I should be here rather than back home setting up my life! I went through all the scenarios what would happen when I returned including whether or not I would have enough money. The mind goes through every fear.
One needs to look in and see what is causing the fear. Truthfully I am completely safe, well fed, I have a place to sleep, a place to work, an outdoor yoga studio, a place to run, easy access to shopping whatever I need and family to come back to. What I don't know presently is what impact this choice will have on my future and where my future will be and what that will look like! We are so use to setting up our lives and making sure that the future is secure and only then we feel safe in the present.
Here in Dyhanapeetham, we are learning to embrace change one minute at a time and be in completion every minute and then what shows up is not from a predictable past pattern but from an amazingly perfect source called existence which has all of us completely contained and presents to us extraordinary solutions, ideas, work, whatever we need even if we don't know we need it. But definitely something better than we ourselves could have picked from some predictable past habit.
When we make decisions externally to alter or change a situation for our internal incompletions in life, we are going to get more and more into a mess. Here is a simple example. You decide to get married because you are lonely and you don't want to be alone. Listen! You can not milk security, or love or guarantees in life when the cause for your problem, loneliness, is rooted inside you as a conflicting thought pattern, a misunderstanding that is impacting your decision to get married and is impacting it now in the present moment. As we all know, marriage is NOT going to heal your loneliness. So you will create more complications for your life and then what will you do? You need to re-cognize the internal cause. Recognize it from another perspective. Shift the cognition. Making a choice from a limiting belief about you, others or life perpetuates more of the same.
The essence of this message is that making changes in one's life is not necessarily the solution to "Change". Rather, "change" lived as a law of life, eternal excitement is the best stability and the solution. If we are living and making choices from incompletions, that WILL kill the excitement in our life. When we work out of incompletion, we become tired and boredom will set in. We certainly wont enjoy the results.
When you bring completion then any change you bring externally does not take away your excitement inside and even if you bring stability it does not lead to boredom inside. SO change without feeling unstable is very important. I think I am at this point enjoying the change and feeling very stable in this environment as I clear my inner space of fears and focus on this moment.
Taken from Morning Satsang talk given by Paramahamsa Sri Nithyananda
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